Menarche Ceremony

Menarche Ceremony - First Blood Celebration

We honour and cherish the tradition of the Menarche ceremony - a sacred rite of passage celebrated in various cultures around the world. Menarche marks a significant turning point in a young woman's life, symbolizing her transition from childhood to womanhood. This profound moment leaves imprints within her, shaping her journey as she embraces her womanhood. Through the Menarche ceremony, we seek to create a space of honour, celebration, and support, empowering young women to embrace their menstrual journey with pride and confidence.

Recall your own first menstruation. How did you experience it? Were you provided with sufficient information about menstruation and sanitary products beforehand? Was menstruation portrayed as something unpleasant or taboo? Our Menarche ceremony seeks to transform this experience into a celebration of womanhood, providing young women with the knowledge, wisdom, and support they need as they step into this new phase of life.

During the Menarche ceremony, we come together to honour and celebrate the young maiden in a way that instils pride and confidence. We prepare her for the red moon journey, guiding her to discover her woman's wisdom, and creating a safe space for her to explore and seek guidance. Surrounded by wise women she looks up to, respects, and values, she is embraced in a web of support—a sacred vessel for her growth.

The ceremony unfolds within a carefully prepared space adorned with red fabrics, candles, female figurines, essential oils, stones, and flowers. Pictures of the celebrant, from infancy to the present, grace the altar at the center of the room. The atmosphere is intimate, safe, and welcoming as we come together to share stories related to menstruation and womanhood.

As the ceremony progresses, we offer caring blessings and celebrations to the young woman. This part of the ceremony can take various forms, such as a shared massage, weaving red ribbons into her hair while whispering blessings, or presenting her with a chalice of water or red wine filled with whispered blessings. Body paint or henna may adorn her body, and her feet can be lovingly massaged by her mother. We unite in song and dance, creating a joyous and empowering experience.

Together, we can create meaningful keepsakes such as artwork, drawings, or crafts, serving as symbols of her Menarche ceremony - a precious memento of this transformative event. At the ceremony's conclusion, she is welcomed among women by walking through an aisle created by the group. Mother of celebrant may await her with a gift, such as a menstrual kit or a red shawl, symbolizing the transition from innocence to womanhood.

The celebration marks a new chapter in the young woman's life, fostering a sense of connection and providing the young woman with cherished memories, wisdom, and unwavering support as she embraces the beauty of womanhood.